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Can Hypnosis help people lose weight?

Hi everyone 

Does hypnosis work in helping people lose weight? See me using it here on GMTV's Inch Loss Island and you decide for yourself. 

Please make any comments that you have.

 

 

Interview with Psychotherapist, Richard Curen

Hi everyone,

I have a very special pod-cast for you to listen to. In this one I interview psychotherapist, Richard Curen. Richard is someone I know very well as he is my brother.

We discuss the complex subject of human behaviour and look to shed some light on why we think, feel and act in certain ways. We talk about  how we are not set in stone and how we can break habits and patterns and  change for the better.

Richard is the director of Respond, a national charity working with people with learning difficulties who are the victims or perpetrators of abuse. To find out more about the charity click here.

If you find this pod-cast useful then please make some comments below and I will pass them on to Richard.

Take good care 

Pete

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Do You Like It Enough To Wear It?

If social pressures to eat have brought you down in the past and you find it hard to say “NO” it doesn’t matter. You’re free to make up a whole new set of rules for dealing with situations in the future. Your circumstances might not change, the people around you might not change. But you can change!

So why do we find it so hard to say NO when we are offered tempting food? There are few reason for this, one being that we don’t want to hurt other peoples feelings when they offer us something. Another reason is the simple fact that these foods taste great and give us a high. In the western world most people eat, not because they are hungry, but because food stimulates their senses and makes them feel good.

We're biologically driven to feel good and our brain seeks out pleasure. Food fits the bill for a lot of people a lot of the time and this is why so many waistlines are expanding.  To help you, the next time someone offers you something and you are not hungry, stop for a moment and ask yourself the question “Do I like this food enough that I want to wear it?” Then picture this food on your thighs or on your backside. I am sure this will make you think twice and make it easier for you to say the magical word “NO”

12 Stone Lighter!

Here's some truely amazing feedback from Diane Stephenson - what a success story! Thanks Diane for sending this through and becoming an instant inspiration!...

12 stone weight lossDIANE WRITES: In August 2002 I finally started to get to grips with my weight issue.  I’d either been overweight, or perceived myself to be, for all of my life and at that point weighed almost 24 stone.

My first step on the journey was to give up my major vice – chocolate.  By having to think about what I wanted to snack on, as I couldn’t just grab for my automatic panecea to all ills.  This meant I started to lose a little bit of weight and I joined a gym and started going 3 or 4 times a week.

In April 2003 my job was made redundant and I knew I would have more time available for a while, until I found another job, so I started working out with a personal trainer to make sure I was working in a way that would help me achieve my goals.   I also had time on my hands and found a book that had been recommended to me called Slimming with Pete by Pete Cohen.
I found this book amazingly helpful – it was light, entertaining reading but also drove home some powerful points including:

  • Are you really hungry?  For me this was really helpful as historically I was an emotional eater – angry, scared, depressed – chocolate would sort that out!!!?
  • Think about what you eat – don’t do something else at the same time.  Since doing this I really notice that I eat much quicker when I’m watching TV than if I’m sitting at the table and putting my cutlery down.?
  • Avoid habitual eating – do you need to eat popcorn at the cinema because that’s what you always do?

There were many more helpful points but 5 years on these are what have stuck in my mind.  I was always determined not to go on a diet – I knew I needed to eat in a more balanced and healthy way and stop obsessing about food, whether it was good or bad or, in eating it whether I was good or bad.  I needed to learn that food is just that – it’s how we think about it that gives it so much power.  There are very few foods that are “bad”, mostly it’s just about balance.

Pete’s book Life DIY is also really helpful from a goal setting point of view and helping to think about where you want to be.

Five years down the line I’m 12 stone lighter and far fitter than I ever thought I could be.  I’ve run two half-marathons and run regularly, often for relaxation as I find it to be a great stress-buster.  My average week includes running, spinning classes, Body Attack and Body Pump classes, Pilates, Tai Chi, horse-riding as well as working out in the gym.

The whole process has led to a passionate interest in health through food and I am currently studying for a diploma in Nutritional Therapy with the Institute of Optimum Nutrition with a view to helping others. 

Diane Stephenson

 

 

P.S. Sorry i haven't been around much this mad month of May - so busy...
More blogging in June i promise!! :)

Are We a Nation of Underground Snackers?

THE AVERAGE BRIT SPENDS 5 ½ MONTHS IN THEIR LIFETIME WORRYING ABOUT THEIR SNACKING HABITS!

I was recently asked to be a spokesman for The Fair Trade Nut Company. They wanted me to comment on their research that reveals Britain is a nation of ‘underground snackers'. The research shows that the average Brit spends an astonishing five and a half months in their lifetime worrying about these ‘indulgences’.

Snacking has become a well-hidden secret for the nation with nearly one in two (49%) of respondents admitting that they consciously choose to eat between meals when no one else is around. More than a quarter (27%) go a step further to conceal their covert snacking by hiding wrappers from loved ones.

It seems as a nation we have cause to worry; over two thirds of UK adults admit to regularly helping themselves to crisps, biscuits and chocolate between meals. The majority (84%) snack once or twice a day but a very peckish 12% snack three or more times a day.

Despite all the worrying and secrecy, snacking makes just a quarter of people happy, 32% said their between meal treats made them feel instantly guilty, a further 23% said it made them feel naughty.

It appears that the healthy eating messages we all see and read every day haven’t had the required effect. They have sent the average snacker underground, sneakily eating when no one is around with some even stashing their wrappers out of sight, rather than encouraging us towards healthier eating habits. The underground snackers make it even worse for themselves by worrying themselves silly about their diet. The truth is; there is nothing wrong with having a couple of snacks a day. But, if people want to lose weight and eat healthier then more of these snacks need to be a healthy protein-based snack like nuts, seeds, or fresh/dried fruit. By replacing your un-healthy snacks you’re giving your body an excellent nutritious boost between meals, which keeps you alert and energized, rather than the super-high followed by an energy-slump that you get from eating snacks that are loaded with calories, are often processed (packed full of nasties), and will spike your blood sugar levels.

The research highlighted that the main trigger to snacking is not hunger but boredom – nationally 51% of respondents claimed they reach for a quick bite when tedium gets the better of them.

It’s important to eat when you are hungry and not go for long periods without eating foods, as this causes our blood sugar levels to drop and our bodies then desire instant energy. These quick energy foods including; fizzy drinks, cakes, chocolates and crisps are so readily available and just too easy-to-grab in times of need. I suggest that you carry with you, or have to hand, snacks that will keep you satisfied and give you good energy and nutrients when you need them. I keep a mixture of nuts, seeds, and dried fruit in a little plastic container in my car and in my bag, and I always make sure I keep it topped up.

Remember to only eat small amounts of nuts at one time as they tend be high in fat. Also it’s best to go for the unsalted and un-roasted variety.

What's in your snack stash? Or do you admit to being an unhealthy 'underground snacker'?
And what about in the US? - Surely you're a bit more chilled-out about this sort of thing? Or not?

Confessions of a couch potato...

From a petecohen.tv weight-loss programme member:

"I have realised that I AM a couch potato. When I was younger, I was aways running, jumping, dancing - I was never still and I was a lovley and slim size 10 (this was in my thirties so I know it is achievable again). But the past few years I have developed this habit of sttiing completely still watching TV or working on the PC - I have become a totally immobile, couch potato. What is my exercise of choice? Watching TV with a glass of red wine and snack - cheese / salami / crisps - easy to see how the weight slips on, isn't it? And the half hearted exercise I was doing served no purpose other than to maintain my late night drinking and snacking habit. God, thsis hard to write, feels almost like a confessional........... I am trying to say I am finally off my a*se and using the exercise tool - I did 30 mins on the cross trainer last night. after about 10 miutes the duck had to be firmly shut up - it was whispering to me "you've done enough now, deal or no deal is on TV..So I shouted " SHUT UP!!!!!! And I did it, the full 30 minutes, I DID IT!!!!!And I am going to do it again every other day. It's a real breakthough for me and I am so grateful to Pete for getting me moving again. The rest of it is going great, got in to those tight trousers hanging in my wardrobe. Not weighing myself till end of January as I feel the scales have very negative connotations for me. I am measuring waist etc as some clothes feeling loose now."

This girl gets a very well deserved Pat On the Back from me! Live the dream :) 

Shut The Duck Up!

Have you heard of the phrase “We are what we eat”?  Of course you have.... Well there’s another phrase that’s just as true - ”We are what we think”.  In fact, when all is said and done, the quality of our life really does come down to how we communicate to ourselves.  You know that little voice inside your head that says “go on eat that chocolate”.   Do you ever say anything like “go on have another helping, no one’s looking” or “it doesn’t matter you’ve blown it already” or “you’re stupid you won’t achieve anything”?   What sort of a voice do you have going on inside your head?

Let me ask you a question, what do you think stops us from being more positive?  I think there's 2 reasons.  Firstly, being negative and giving ourselves a hard time is something we’ve practised - and like anything we practise doing long enough - we become good at it, and we generally just keep on doing it. Now, the other reason is that we don't like being different to the crowd - being negative stops us from standing out. Positive people tend to take action and get on with life... they stand out as being different... being different can feel a bit uncomfortable at first... and who wants to feel uncomfortable ?

Shut The Duck Up!

And so let me ask you another question.  If I was to step inside your head for a day would I come out at the end of the day going “WOW THAT WAS FANTASTIC” or would I come out going “OH THAT WAS REALLY REALLY HARD WORK”?  You see for many people that voice going off inside their heads is actually like a never ending duck quacking inside their head all day long. Now whilst we don’t actually have a duck quacking inside our heads whether you’ve realised it or not as I’m talk to you right now you’re probably talking to yourself either agreeing or disagreeing with what I’m saying.  And the fact is a lot of what we say in our head is not always positive and so what I want you to do is when you start to give yourself a hard time imagine it is like a duck quacking in your head quacking away giving yourself a hard time and just tell that duck to shut up.

Shut the duck up!

... and start to be more positive about what you’re doing.    Spend some time now answering the following questions and then, for the rest of this week, pay special attention to how you talk to yourself, listen to it, and be curious as to how you talk to yourself.

  • How do you talk to yourself if you get things wrong?  What words and tone do you use?
  • Do you treat yourself as well as you would treat your best friend? If not, what do you do differently?
  • What sort of messages of encouragement do you give yourself?

You see the people who have successfully become slimmer have stopped battling with themselves. They’ve learned to be kinder and more accepting of themselves and their mistakes. Now they changed and so can you.    The most important thing to remember is that you get what you focus on. So focus on feeling good for no reason at all.  Look for the positive things that you’re doing and give yourself some credit and you will achieve more.

Have a great day! Quack!

Pete.

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